After 29 years on this earth (leave me alone, I can be 29 if I want to be ;-)) You would think I could create New Year Resolutions that last beyond the first 15 days of January. For most of us, creating lasting resolutions continues to be a challenge. As years pass, I tend to feel more pressure to accomplish the goals I have in life. After all, according to...
The research is clear, one of the top five things that couples fight about is finances. Unfortunately, the holidays can highlight and add to financial stress for many. The National Retail Federation predicts that Americans will spend roughly $721 billion dollars on gifts, travel and food during the holidays. That is roughly $1,007 per person. Even as a family of 2 or 3, the spending can add up quickly. Discussing...
You floated through the dating phase, glided to the altar, maybe even welcomed one or two new additions to the family. But somewhere in the natural flow of life together, you’ve found that the careers you envisioned so clearly in the early relationship stages look very different today. His job requires travel and long days; hers demands the night hours. Relationship quality begins to waver in the light of strenuous...
Why is it that we have to deal with emotions? When someone reacts angrily or shows any negative emotion it seems to be uncomfortable for those around. Then, avoiding emotions may be a way to escape from being criticized or not accepted. However, according to a research article about dealing with feelings, personal suppression can have a negative impact on your social life and well being. The more a person...
Have you ever noticed the similarities of what makes a business successful and a successful relationship? Successful businesses have clearly defined values, goals, and priorities. They also likely have a clear vision. I think healthy relationships instill similar strategies. Many business and corporations do quarterly, mid-year, or annual reviews. This is a time set aside on the calendar with the plan to talk about the past several months and the...
A beautiful new home, a new opportunity across the country, a bigger apartment, or starting out on your own for the first time can all be exciting adventures. However, moving can be one of the toughest times in any couple’s life. The strain on a marriage during the moving process ranks high on the list of reasons people split up. Financial stress, personal transitions, lack of communication and uncertainty in...
Tax Day is quickly approaching which means it is a great time to look how you can use your tax refund to benefit your relationship. Did you know that 78% of American workers live paycheck to paycheck and 44% of adults can’t cover an emergency costing as little as $400? These statistics illuminate just how easy financial stress can become relationship distress. When emergencies happen not being financially secure can...
Oh The Joy! Picture it. It is Christmas morning. Mom and Dad have made their coffee. The kids are awake and full of anticipation. They get the “go ahead” and run into the living room with the Christmas tree sparkling, a sea of gifts underneath. There is so much joy! It’s Christmas Morning! Giving gifts to children at Christmas is one of the most fun, joyous activities you can experience...
Arguing about money in marriage is common. Forbes published a study conducted by the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysis citing financial stress is the third leading cause of divorces. This statistic is definitely alarming but financial strain doesn’t need to destroy your relationship. In fact, you can avoid conflict over money by having a few simple (ongoing) conversations. My friend recently told me how her husband came home with a large...
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