Show the Love: How to Share Parent Appreciation

Let’s face the facts: We’ve put our parents through a lot. From the terrible twos to teenage tyranny, our caregivers have poured years of blood, sweat, and tears into child-rearing. Looking back, I am dumbfounded by the sacrifices my parents offered of themselves during some of my more difficult life stages. While they weren’t perfect, I see unwavering patience and unconditional love that continues today. Now it’s time to return the favor and shower them with love by sharing parent appreciation!

It’s comical to think back on a period in which we, in ignorant youth, “knew it all,” very contrary to our parents, of course. Age and maturity usually help shift perspective to see parents in a brighter light. Suddenly, they know much more than they originally thought. Mark Twain describes this phenomenon accurately. Upon making this realization, we may experience guilt and the desire to initiate change in how we view and treat Mom and Dad. If this is you and you’re wondering how to go about this, read on!

How to Share Parent Appreciation

Show the Love by Gifting Your Time

Growing up, spending time with the parental unit was likely not a priority. Life’s busyness continues to stack up, but your parents still desire to be part of it all. What better way to express love and gratitude than carving out quality time in the chaos for Mom and Dad? Invite them to be part of your life today, whether that means meeting up for dinner, attending your son’s soccer game, or engraving family time on the calendar as a priority. Make an effort to share details of your day with them and express willingness to listen on the other end.

Offer Your Help

How many times did Mom and Dad lend a helping hand over the years? You can show your appreciation by reciprocating their generosity. This may mean lending a hand around the house, cleaning, and organizing. It could be providing transportation or serving a hot meal while you spend the evening together. Maybe it includes financial assistance, should you be in a position to do so. Be on the alert for needs your parents have, especially ones they may not specifically identify, and be willing to provide aid when able.

Take Them By Surprise

You don’t need a national holiday or designated occasion to shower love on your parents. Share your appreciation by doing something special and unexpected. Take family photos and make an album or scrapbook capturing your favorite memories. Handwrite a letter of thanks and slip it in their mailbox. Plan a family gathering specifically to honor your parents for all they’ve done. Organize a photo shoot with a professional photographer that includes the entire family. These are things parents treasure forever! For more ideas, check this out.

Today is a great day to recognize Mom and Dad for all they’ve done and who they are! Maybe you’re in a place of relational brokenness with one or both parents. If you’re looking to repair your connection and grow together, we can help! Call us to set up a family therapy session with a relationship expert today. Or visit us online to book an appointment.

How have you demonstrated appreciation for your parents in the past?